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From The Desk Of The Editor                                                                                             ISSUE No. 1869
                                                                                                                                       JAVANAN
                                                                Afashin from San Francisco                          was closing her eyes so that this sweet
                                                 My mother had become a child                                       dream would not end. In the hustle and
                                                                                                                    bustle of Disneyland, we got a wheelchair
                                                 again, singing with the children                                   for my mother, but she was going so fast
                                                                                                                    and singing with the children as if she had
                                                                                                                    boarded  an  airplane.  Her  eyes  sparkled
                                                                                                                    when she saw the wonders of Disneyland,
                                                                                                                    ate ice cream and popcorn with my child-
                                                                                             A month and a half later,   ren, even attached some balloons to her
                                                                                             the mother was transfer-  wheelchair and every few moments she
                                                                                                                    used  to burst  one  of them  to  scare  the
                                                                                              red to a rehabilitation   people around her, which make her laugh
                                                                                              center. At the same time,
                                                                                              I went to San Francisco   with the children.
                                                                                              with my  family  for  my   I could not believe that, this was my
                     years ago,  when we  arrived                                             new job. My elder sister   depressed and thin mother who was on the
                     America, my parents were                                                 also  went  to  Texas  to   bed of that center. She was full of energy.
              28 happy and planning for the fu-                                                take a specialized cour-  She  also taught some old songs from our
               ture. My father jokingly said, “If I had                                        se, so we lost contact   childhood to my children. So each time
               known that there were so many golden                                            with our mother. I often   she gave a cash prize from her purse to
               hairs in the world, I would not have mar-                                       used to call her while   their best performance.
               ried in Iran”, and then, my mother ran af-                                      she answered with cry   At the end of the night, while we were
               ter him with a bottle of full water and did                                      and I promised her that   passed out from exhaustion, my mother
               not calm down until she emptied it all over                                      I would come back   was still making noise with the children.
               my father’s head, and at the end, my father                                      and  visit  her  soon.   We went to the same Disney hotel and the
               said, “I’m sorry, I wanted to know if you                                        My  sisters usually   kids surrounded my mother, at one point,
               still have feminine jealousy towards me or                                       sent her gifts and so-  I realized that the children had fainted of
               not?”                                                                             metimes they talked   exhaustion, but my mother still had ener-
                 Such romantic jokes were seen in our                                            on the phone, but I   gy. My wife said, “Your mother needed to
               house for years. My sisters and I learned                                         felt that my mother   see the children, we should not leave her
               love from these parents and we had happy                                          was deeply sad, her   alone from now on”.
               lives due to these methods. Especially, it                                        voice was mixed      The next morning, my mother had
               was my mother, who taught us to be forgi-                                          with sadness,  and   woken up earlier and had ordered break-
               ving and not to hold grudges against anyo-                                         finally she  agreed   fast in the room. Actually she had ordered
               ne, also try to be a teacher of others. Our                                        to sell the house,   the things that children liked. After that,
               father also taught us not to allow our rights                                      and cover the costs   we were going to continue our visit to Dis-
                                                                                                                    ney, which my mother was most excited
               to be trampled on, but to act with politics                                        of her treatment   about. We spent another passionate day
               in such a way that we do not leave any                                             and residence in   all together.  That night, everyone went
               enemies behind.                                                                     that center.     to sleep early and my mother seemed to
                 Our parents were very kind people,                                         My return from San      have fainted. After two days, we returned
               they took us on trips, although they didn’t               month    Francisco was long and my sisters were   to our hotel in the center of the city and
               like, and came with us to all the youth   until we lost our father. My   busy with their own lives and I was the   took the mother back to the same center.
               entertainment centers.  The first time I   father was not very old, but a sudden il-  only one who was worried about my   My mother reluctantly went inside the
               became friends with a girl, my mother in-  lness, caused his death. My mother was   mother. But unfortunately, I was so busy   center, but I promised her to visit her con-
                                                a middle-aged woman with thousands
               sisted that I bring her home and introduce   of dreams, who loved my father a lot and   with my work, my wife’s surgery and the   tinuously.
               her to everyone, and a few months later,   this incident deeply hurt her. We sent her   problems of three children, which made   In the car, while we were returning
               she invited her family to dinner. This was   to Iran for a while to calm down, then, she   me move away from my mother day by   from there, the children hugged me
               the reason for all of us to proceed under   went to see my aunt in London, and after   day. Until one night I dreamed of my   and my wife and asked, “Why don’t
               the  supervision of  two  families  without   that, went to see my sister in Seattle but   mother and decided to visit her. So I went   we take grandma with ourselves to San
               concealment and to be careful about our   all of these, did not make her happy and   to Los Angles with my family for 2-3 days.   Francisco?” I said, “Grandma is a little
               behavior and actions, and these interac-  she finally returned home. A house with 5   The moment my mother saw my children   sick”, but my eldest son immediately said
               tions led to our marriage in the future. The   bedrooms, which, she was not willing to   in the courtyard of that center, she screa-  that grandma was healthier than all of us.
               same thing happened for my elder sister   sell and always said that all her memories   med with joy that surprised everyone.   Then he said, “Grandma is dying of lone-
               Sima, when my mother invited that young   were spent under the roof of that house.  She opened her arms to my kids and the   liness here”. This truth shocked me, I loo-
               man to my birthday with a special policy,   One day, my mother’s leg was broken   children were very happy to see her. We   ked at my wife, we, both smiled and retur-
               then she talked to his parents on the pho-  due to falling down the hospital stairs,   were with each other for two hours, then,   ned to that center again. When I knocked
               ne and sent a gift to his mother, although   that’s why she had to undergo surgery   we told her that we were going to stay in a   her room’s door, the mother was lying on
               the relationships did not lead to marriage,   and was hospitalized for a month. After   hotel, and the day after that we were going   the bed, so I shouted, “Mother, the child-
               but led to a very good friendship between   the hospital, she was sent to a special care   to Disney Land. She said, “ take me too.”   ren will not come back without you”. The
               the two families. It led to the fact, that, one   center for the elderly, and this issue, had   I told her, “ you will get tired soon”, but   mother jumped up and ran to the car whi-
               day my sister went to propose for the same   completely upset my mother, that’s why   she said, “ I will try my best not to bother   le forgetting to take her bag and things,
               young man.                       she spoke very little and did not laugh at   anyone, my heart rot in these four walls”.   and at that moment I heard the children’s
                 You can guess by yourself what ideas   all. I brought my mother back to my hou-  I said, “We will come  and pick you up,   screams of happiness.
               and viewpoints our family lived with, and   se, meanwhile, my aunt and her husband   then go together to Disney Land tomor-  I collected my mother’s furniture and
               how happy we were all together. Little by   who came from Europe were living in the   row.” The children were so happy to hear   went to that center’s office and said, “ I
               little, we went to college and university,   mother’s house and the house was not   this news and were running and shouting   am going to take my mother from here
               then we started our favorite work, and one   empty. My mother was happy with my   in the yard with joy and my mother was   forever”. They put all the papers in front
               day, according to my mother’s words, the   children and after a long time, the sound   crying with happiness. The next day when   of me and I signed them all. There was a
               house was empty of our presence and the   of the mother’s laughter could be heard   we went there, the mother was ready whi-  commotion in the parking lot. I saw my
               homesickness of our parents started.  in my house. She used to run after my   le wearing a beautiful dress and had a soft   mother as if she had become a child, sin-
                 Soon my sister and I, had children and   children and they used to pull her in every   make -up with wrapped hair.   ging with the children and waving her
               my other two sisters, went to other cities.   direction. After some time, the mother fell   In the rented car, my children were   hands happily.
               We used to get together once or twice a   down and was taken to the hospital again.   lying in my mother’s arms and my mother   Translation: Massi Zokaei
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