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            By DR. ALFRED SISON


          Sometimes we need a
      good kick in the rear to get
      our mind and body moving.
      One of the ways I get myself
      out of “the weekend-was-too-
      fun-and-now-it-is-the-
      dreaded-Monday      morning-
      hit-the    snooze-button-five-
      more-minutes” cycle is to pray
      or read inspirational pieces.
      Here is a piece from a social
      media website  www.purpose
      fairy.com that helps me time
      and again.                    learn to accept and embrace   maturity. Every experience,   their opinions is a recipe for
                                    this truth, the more peace we  every interaction, no matter  stress,        unhappiness,  10. You are a human being, not
      11 Things to Remind           will feel in our hearts and the  how bad it might seem, has  confusion and misery.  Always  a human doing.
      Yourself of Each Day          easier it will become for us to  the ability to shape you, to  remember that your life is     You are a human being,
                                    deal with life’s many changes  mold you, and to help you    yours to live, and you should  not a human doing and you
      1. This moment is your life.  and challenges.               become the person you were    live it your way without being  need to make sure that you
          Today, here and now, is                                 born to be.  And if life gives  too concerned with what “they”  don’t allow your ego to trick
      where   your   life  is.  This  3. Each day is a new beginning,  you “a lot” to deal with, it is  think.                you into thinking that who you
      moment is your life. And if you  each morning is a new life.  only because it knows how                                 are is not enough and that in
      make a choice to immerse          The beautiful thing about  powerful you truly are, and it  8. Never neglect your path for  order for you to “become
      yourself fully into this moment  life is that each morning it  wants you to discover the  another.                      somebody,” in order for you
      – appreciating, enjoying and  gives you a new chance, a     courage, the wisdom and the       You have your own path    to prove your worth, you have
      loving   what   is-you   will  new opportunity to start all  strength that lie deep within  to walk upon, your unique   TO DO more and more each
      experience joy that you have  over.  To let go of your      you.                          purpose to fulfill, and no    day.  There’s nothing wrong in
      never   experienced   before,  yesterdays and make a fresh                                matter how tempting it might  doing things, nothing wrong
      and you will feel more alive  new start in life. That’s how  6. You were born with wings.  be to put your life on hold just  with working and creating all
      than you have ever felt.      generous life is…             Learn to use them and fly!    because those around you      kinds of wonderful things, but
          “Be   happy    for   this     “Finish every day and be      There    is   so   much   are asking for it, you should  when you begin to equate
      moment. This moment is your   done with it.  You have done  strength, so much beauty, so  never do it. The relationship  your self worth with how much
      life.”  ~ Omar Khayyam        what    you   could.   Some   much wisdom and so much       you have with your own soul,  you do, with how hard you
                                    blunders and absurdities, no  power within you. Always has  with your life purpose and    work and how good you are
      2. There is a time for everything.  doubt crept in. Forget them as  been and always will be. And  with your path in life is the  at doing the things you do,
          There is a time for being  soon as you can, tomorrow is  if you dare to believe in    most important relationship in  then things might get out of
      alone and a time for being    a new day.” ~ Ralph Waldo     yourself as much as you       your    life.  This   is   a  balance.    “I am a human
      surrounded by the people you  Emerson                       would want others to believe  sacred relationship, and you  being, not a human doing.
      love; a time for joy and a time                             in you, and if you dare to    should treat it as such.   “You  Don’t equate your self-worth
      for sorrow; a time for being  4. Nothing in life is yours to  dream and live your life as if  are the source of all purity  with how well you do things in
      vigorous, and a time for being  keep.                       there were no limits to what  and impurity. No one purifies  life.  You aren’t what you do.
      exhausted; a time for being       Everything in life is fleeting  you could do, be and have,  another. Never neglect your  If you are what you do, then
      safe, and a time for being in  and impermanent. Everything  then in time, you will discover  work for another’s, however  when you don’t…you aren’t.”
      danger…   ”A time to be born  changes, nothing ever stays   that,  “You were born with    great his need.  Your work is  – Dr. Wayne Dyer
      and a time to die, a time to  the same, and even though     potential.  You were born with  to discover your work and
      plant and a time to uproot, a  we like to hold on to things,  goodness and trust. You were  then with all your heart to give  11. Who you are is enough.
      time to tear down and a time  to own and possess as many    born with ideals and dreams.  yourself to it.” ~Dhammapada      Who you are is already
      to build,  a time to weep and  things as possible, the truth  You were born with greatness.                             enough, not because of how
      a time to laugh, a time to    of the matter is that nothing  You were born with wings. You  9. It is better to be alone than in  your life looks externally, but
      mourn and a time to dance, a  is ours to keep. When the     are not meant for crawling, so  bad company.                because of who you are
      time to scatter stones and a  time comes for us to leave this  don’t.  You have wings. Learn  Surround   yourself  with  internally. So don’t you even
      time to gather them, a time to  physical  world,  we  take  to use them and fly.” ~ Rumi  wise, kind and loving people;  dare, not even for a second,
      embrace and a time to refrain  nothing with us. We leave                                  people who live in truth and  to think otherwise.
      from embracing, a time to     everything     behind    us,  7. What other people think of  integrity. And  “If for company  “You alone are enough.
      search and a time to give up,  including our own bodies.    you is none of your business.  you cannot find a wise and   You have nothing to prove to
      a time to keep and a time to  “You only lose what you cling     Lao Tzu said it best in the  prudent friend who leads a  anybody.” ~ Maya  Angelou
      throw away, a time to tear and  to.” ~ Buddha               Tao Te  Ching:  “Care about   good life, then, like a king who  Please feel free to contact
      a time to mend, a time to be                                people’s approval and you     leaves behind a conquered     me      at    my     website
      silent and a time to speak.” ~  5.  You are never given more  will  be  their  prisoner.”  kingdom,  or  like  a  lone  www.alspsy.com        Aloha,
      Ecclesiastes 3:2-7.           than you can handle.          Worrying about what other     elephant   in  the  elephant  Peace, Mabuhay,  Amen! -Dr
          There   is  a  time   for     Adversity          builds  people think of you and      forest, you should go your    Al
      everything, and the more we   character,   strength    and  adjusting your life based on  way alone.” ~ Dhammapada
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