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ALIYAH DIARIES



                              Olim Schools:




               An Anglo Bubble or Your Ticket
                                                                                                         Ariela Davis
                         to a Successful Aliyah?







               on’t make Aliyah with   has prepared them for. Many former   self-conscious about their accent –
               teenagers. It’s a constant   straight-A students experience a loss   because everyone else has one too.
               refrain that families   of identity as they sit, disoriented,   Eventually, students do learn the
      Dentertaining  the  crazy        in a Hebrew-speaking classroom   language – but at their own pace,
      but idealistic fulfillment of their   while earning grades far lower than   without pressure. Many of these
      Aliyah dreams hear from just about   they used to. It is daunting for even
      everyone. Throw young kids into the   the most socially-adjusted kids to   schools  also  make  a  special  effort
      Israeli system and they’ll be rattling   break into existing social cliques   to inspire a love for Israel and the
      off Hebrew within a year, making fun   while fearing the embarrassment of   Land, helping teens understand why
      of your woefully American accent   making mistakes in Hebrew. While   it was worth giving up the comfort of
      and climbing over fences with their   many teen olim adapt and succeed in   their old life to embark on this new
      Israeli classmates. But to uproot teens   mainstream Israeli schools, others   adventure.
      from their friends and everything that   struggle. I’ve met many students who
      provides them with stability, identity   lose their motivation to learn Hebrew,   While most parents are initially
      and comfort when they are already   refuse to go to school and make plans   hesitant to enroll their teens in an
      struggling at that prickly age? Bad   to return to their country of origin as   ‘Anglo-bubble’ school, many of those
      idea.                            soon as possible – even when living in   same parents are later deeply grateful
      Whether it’s due to new opportunities   communities with considerable Anglo   that their kids are happy and learning
      to work remotely or the loss of faith in   populations.           again. Schools designed for olim may
      the future of Jewish communities in   But  we’ve  also  seen  many teens   not offer the immediate integration
      the Diaspora, many families are now   experience incredible success at   in Israeli society that we all want for
      making the ‘insane’ decision to make   schools designed to help them   our kids, but they might just be your
      Aliyah with teens. As the principal   acclimate and integrate into the   ticket to a successful Aliyah!
      of Ulpanat Orly, a girls’ high school   country at a pace that meets their
      designed for olim, I speak to many such   academic and social needs. At schools
      families each week.              like Ulpanat Orly in Beit Shemesh,
      The fears of making Aliyah with teens   devoted staff ease students into   Ariela Davis is the Principal of Ulpanat Orly
      are not groundless. Though simply   learning Hebrew in an environment   in Beit Shemesh and a former Rebbetzin
      dropping kids into the deep end of   where students can ask questions   and Director of Judaics/Interim Principal in
      the pool in the hopes of speeding   in their own language and can   Charleston, SC, from where her family made
      their integration is often successful,   practice their Hebrew without being   Aliyah in the summer of 2020.
      throwing teens into anything does not
      work the same way. By nature, teens
      yearn for independence and autonomy,
      while moving with your family across
      the ocean demands significant buy-in
      and adaptability. Even if a teen is on                                                            Scan here to join
      board with the move, their adolescent                                                             Ariela’s Inspiring
                                                                                                        Divrei Torah
      insecurity can make everything feel                                                               WhatsApp group
      more challenging. Learning math and
      science in Hebrew in order to take the
      bagrut (Israel’s matriculation exams)
      requires far different vocabulary and
      fluency than their day-school Hebrew


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