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Did you then go to work?         professionally, but soon I realized we  When did you begin teaching here?
                                             needed more income if we wanted to
            I  majored in  math, which I really   send our kids to college. I took some   A friend introduced me to the OU Israel
            enjoyed in high school and found to be                            Center and I first taught a course on
            very beautiful. This was in the 1950s,   courses at Washington University and   the seven nevi’ot, and helped start a
                                             spoke to one of the administrators,
            which saw the beginning of computers,   who told me that my math degree and   women’s beit midrash in the afternoons.
            and I got a job which I loved at a pension                        I was also invited to teach for Emunah
            plans company, creating retirement   my knowledge of computers were way   and Tovei Ha-Ir, and for many years
                                             out of date, and “...in any case, you’re
            plans for teachers all over the USA. But                          I have taught a weekly navi class in
            I had gotten married in my last year of   a people person, didn’t you ever think   Hebrew for women in my shul.
                                             of  teaching?”  I  said  I  didn’t  think  I
            college, and once I had my first child it   would be a good teacher and went
            simply was not acceptable in our world                            Why do you love to teach navi so
            to continue to work.             home very discouraged. Now I’m not   much?
                                             making this up, but the moment I got
            Your husband became a community   home the phone was ringing. It was the   It’s music; even the prose is music. The
                                             principal of the local day school who
                                                                              writing is utterly beautiful, and it is so
            rabbi?                           was desperate to find a teacher for navi   full – there is so much to learn. So much
            When he got his semicha, he was hired as   and dinim. I was about to say no, but I   of the philosophy of Judaism is derived
            the rabbi of the shul in Montgomery, AL.   heard my voice saying, “I think I’d like   from the words of the nevi’im, as well
            I always said I wouldn’t marry a rabbi   that, but I don’t know how.” He told me   as so much of our history. And that’s
            because I felt that my mother was quite   he would help me, and he really did,   why I love to teach the commentary of
            unappreciated as a rebbetzin. But I have   and got me started. I was hooked, really   Malbim so much. He really wants you
            to admit, it wasn’t as bad as I thought   hooked, and I never turned my back on   to understand the peshat – how specific
            it would be. Still, Montgomery was day   it after that. I did take some courses to   words are used to convey the deeper
            and night different from Brooklyn. Most   hone my skills, but I now regret very,   meaning. He is sometimes wordy and
            of the Jews there were very far from   very strongly that I didn’t pursue any   hard to get through, but when he’s
            frumkeit, but it was a wealthy community   higher degrees in education because   done, he really leaves me breathless.
            with beautiful homes, and southern   there were a lot of curricular ideas I
            women were really coddled and treated   wanted to work on, but I lacked the  Finally, would you say that you have
            with gallantry. This was just before the   tools.                 fulfilled your dreams?
            beginnings of the civil rights movement,
            and we stayed there for five years.  When did you start teaching adults?  In terms of my family I must say that
                                                                              I have, because, baruch Hashem, I have
                                             After 18 years, it was time to move on   many great-grandchildren, although
            Did you do any teaching there?   from the day school. I started teaching   I’m hoping that He will let me see a
            No, the Hebrew school was very small   courses in Judaism and Jewish history   fifth generation. As far as my teaching
            and only my husband and the shochet   to unaffiliated and non-observant   is concerned, as I said, when I set out
            taught. We wanted to start a day school,   adults in the community. That’s when I   it was never actually a dream of mine,
            but couldn’t get even five families to   really started to appreciate the wonders   but I cannot even put into words the
            join. Eventually, we realized we had   of Jewish history and world history.   tremendous, tremendous satisfaction
            to move, not only because we needed   Soon I was asked to speak for other   I get out of it.
            schools for our kids, but also because of   organizations, and I also gave a Shabbat
            how the local culture was rubbing off   afternoon shiur in my house. All that
            on them. The final straw was when one   continued until my husband retired and
            of my boys came into shul, pointed to a   we made Aliyah.
            chumash and said, “Gimme that cotton-
            pickin’ bible”.                  Why didn’t you just stay on in St.
                                             Louis?
            Where did you move to?
                                             My husband believed that a retired rav
            In 1964, my husband became the rav of   should never stay in his community,   David Olivestone
            Congregation Nusach Hari B’nai Zion, a   and we both felt very strongly that   is an award-winning writer who served
            large shul in a very nice neighborhood   Israel was where we belonged. I was a   on the staffs of the British Museum
            in St. Louis, MO.                very staunch member of Bnei Akiva as   and of the Encyclopaedia Judaica.
                                             a teenager, and I felt very comfortable   He was Director of Communications
            What was your role there?        when we came to Jerusalem.          at the Orthodox Union in New York
            I was a very active rebbetzin, and I                                  before making Aliyah to Jerusalem
                                                                                     with his wife Ceil in 2013.
            had no intention of doing anything


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