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Eulogies & Notices




          how do i write a eulogy?                  Gather information. Talk with  fam-

          Giving a meaningful, moving eulogy        ily members, close friends and
          can be a nerve-wracking situation for     co-workers to get important in-
          even the most accomplished pub-           formation on the deceased. Some
          lic speaker, but it need not be. How      important information to include in
          can you summarize somebody’s life         the eulogy is the persons family and
          in a few short minutes, while being       other close relationships, their ed-
          both somber and funny at the same         ucation/career, hobbies  or  special
          time? Writing and delivering a eulo-      interests, places the person lived
          gy is a therapeutic tool to help deal     or travelled too, and any special ac-
          with your grief, and being chosen to      complishments they had.
          give a eulogy is an honor and should
          be treated that way. Here are some        Organize your  thoughts.  Jot  down
          tips for writing and delivering an el-    your ideas by  whatever means
          oquent and memorable eulogy.              are most comfortable and famil-
                                                    iar to you. Create an outline of your
                                                    speech,  and  fill  in  the  information
                                                    that you gathered about the person.


                                                    Write it down. This is not a toast at
                                                    a wedding where you can make off
                                                    the cuff remarks, and you should not
                                                    adlib a eulogy. Writing it all down al-
                                                    lows you to include and remember
                                                    every detail you wanted in your eu-
                                                    logy. When you bring a copy of your
                                                    eulogy to the podium make sure it
                                                    is easy to read, print it out in a large
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