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THE REAL MALAY

     are still a  rugged simplicity  and untidiness, absolutely
     devoid of all sense of order.
        A  Malay  is allowed  by  law to have as  many  as
     four  wives,  to divorce them, and  replace  them.  If
     he is well off and can afford so much  luxury,  he

     usually  takes  advantage  of  the  power  to  marry
     more than one  wife,  to divorce and secure successors;
     but he seldom undertakes the responsibility  of four
     wives at one time.  The woman on her   part can,
     and often  does,  obtain a divorce from her husband.
                                    "           "
     Written conditions of  marriage,  settlements  of
     a        are common   with         in the
        kind,                    people        upper
             and the law           for the        of
     classes,             provides        custody
              division of          and so  on.  The
     children,            property,
     ancient maiden  lady  is an unknown  quantity,  so is
     the  Malay public  woman  ; and,  as there is no  society
     bugbear,  the  people  lead  lives  that  are  almost
     natural.  There are no drunken husbands, no hob-
     nail  boots,  and no  screaming viragoes  because a
     word would get  rid of them.  All forms of mad-
     ness, mania,  and  brain-softening  are  extremely  rare.
        The  Malay  has ideas on the  subject  of  marriage,
     ideas born of his infinite          He has even
                            experience.
     soared into        of matrimonial           and
                regions               philosophy,
     returned with such crumbs of lore as never fall to
     the  poor monogamist.
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