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4. Quality Time
“This love language is about being together, fully present and engaged in
the activity at hand, no matter how trivial.”
5. Gifts
“Your partner taking the time to give you a gift can make you feel
appreciated.”
How to figure out your primary
language:
1. Your upbringing can speak into your love language. How did you
parents show you love growing up? What made you feel the most
loved as a child? There is a high probability that is your primary love
language.
2. When you really want to show someone you care about them, what
first comes to your mind to show it? Your most basic instincts can
show your primary love language as well.
3. Painful relational experiences can show your primary love language.
If someone close to you hurt you in a deep way or neglected to show
love the way you wanted, perhaps the deep hurt/dissatisfaction
came because the way you most feel loved was not met. This means
that what they failed to do is what you value the most because it is
your primary love language.
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