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particulars in the interment register,                   memorialization of the dead has been a
         maintaining  all  legal  files);  opening  and           key component of almost every culture.
         closing the grave (locating the grave and                Psychologists  say  that  remembrance
         laying out the boundaries, excavating and                practices,  from the  funeral  or  memorial
         filling  the  interment  space);  installation           service to permanent memorialization,
         and  removal  of  the  lowering  device;                 serve an important emotional function for
         placement and removal of artificial grass                survivors by helping them bring closure
         dressing  and  coco-matting  at  the  grave              and allowing the healing process to begin.
         site, leveling, tamping, re-grading and                  Providing a permanent resting place for
         sodding the grave site and leveling and                  the  deceased  is  a  dignified  treatment
         re-sodding the grave if the earth settles.               for a loved one’s mortal remains, which
                                                                  fulfills  the  natural  human  desire  for
         Can we dig our own grave to avoid the                    memorialization.
         charge for opening and closing?
         The actual opening and closing of the                    What  happens when  a  cemetery  runs
         grave is just one component of the opening               out of land?
         and closing fee. Due to safety issues                    When a cemetery runs out of land,
         which arise around the use of machinery                  it will continue to operate and serve
         on cemetery property and the protection                  the     community.        Most     cemeteries
         of  other  gravesites,  the  actual  opening             have crematoriums, and some historic
         and closing of the grave is conducted by                 cemeteries even offer guided tours.
         cemetery grounds personnel only.
                                                                  In  a  hundred  years  will  this  cemetery
         Why is having a place to visit so                        still be there?
         important?                                               We think of cemetery lands as being
         To  remember  and  to  be  remembered                    in perpetuity. There are cemeteries
         are natural human needs. A permanent                     throughout the world that have been in
         memorial in a cemetery provides a focal                  existence for hundreds of years.
         point for remembrance and memorializing
         the deceased. Throughout human history,


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