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Page 4                              The St. Kitts-Nevis Observer. Friday January 6, 2017                                                   COMMENTARY

                      Editorial                                                   The Gaskell Family Nakba

       Thanksgiving                                                               Nakba in the heading                                     entrance into the

If all things were equal, one would expect that once                              means ‘catastrophe’                                      world, where he
every seven years, the world would experience what
it experiences within the past week when Old Year’s                               and is the word used                                     would stay with his
Day was a Saturday and New Year’s Day is a Sunday.
The year ended on the last day of the week and the                                by the Palestinians to                                   mother, and not be
new one started on the first day of the week. The fact
that the world had to wait 10 years since 2006 for the                            describe their forcible                                  removed by others for
stars to line up to make this happen simply confirms
what we always knew – that the world is not an even-                              eviction from their                                      weighing, measuring,
ly balanced place. The best that we can hope for,
therefore, is for our fair share. We know too that in all                         homeland in 1948.                                        checking under bright
things and everything we should give thanks to the
Almighty God.                                                                     After 70 years the                                       hospital    lights.
In that regard, we give thanks to our many advertisers
- businesses and persons - who have faithfully adver-                             process still contin-                                    Friends of theirs in the
tised with us and who have helped to make us the
newspaper that we are today. We give thanks too, to                               ues, although not in                                     Federation had had
our many contributors who have shared opinions and
information with us so that we, in turn can educate                               such an overt fashion.                                   ‘happy events’ suc-
and inform you, our readership. Mostly, we appreci-
ate the loyalty of our readership.                                                On the night of                                          cessfully at home.
This is Issue No. 1158 of our paper. That is, we are
in our 23rd year of publication. God has taught us to                             December 26th/27th                                       Theirs would be no
number our days, and He has lengthened them for us.
For this we are also very thankful. To paraphrase a                               2016 my family                                           different. It was. It is
quote we have seen, we are only one newspaper, but
still we are one. We cannot do everything, but still we                           endured its own                                          our Nakba.
can do something. What we can do we should do,
and what we should do, by the grace of God, we will                               Nakba. At a home                                         The family had a joy-
do. Amen.                                                                                                                                  ous Christmas.
The lining up of the stars makes 2017 special. How                                birthing my first                                        Valerie was excited
special it will become depends on all of us. So we                                                                                         about the impending
pray for tolerance and we pray for peace. May all that                            grandchild, James                                        birth. At 6:40am the
we do as a newspaper, as a people, as a nation                                                                                             next day her waters
cause us all to be more productive.                                               Edward        Milnes                                     broke, contractions
Happy and Prosperous 2017 to all!                                                                                                          began and a diary was
                                                                                  Gaskell, son of my               James Gaskell           kept describing the
                                                                                                                Syndicated columnist       contractions and their
                                                                                  Charles and his girl-                                    timings and their com-
                                                                                                              an invasive technique.       munications through-
                                                                                  friend Valerie (the         Two days later, Valerie      out the day with the
                                                                                                              ran a very high fever, and   midwife. The midwife
                                                                                  children) was born          this turned them away        came at 6.30pm. Her
                                                                                                              from the Medical             two helpers arrived
                                                                                  full term but never         Profession, and back to      later.
                                                                                                              natural childbirth at
                                                                                  drew breath.                home. For this they
                                                                                                              knew they had to have a
                                                                                  At about 5:00am on          midwife. One was                This family believes,
                                                                                  the 27th December I         found. She came to              or at least I do, as a
                                                                                  found myself stand-         check Valerie on two            Journalist, that the
                                                                                  ing next to Dr. Liburd      occasions. On December          only way to advance is
                                                                                  in the emergency sec-       14th Valerie registered at      to acknowledge the
                                                                                  tion of the hospital.       the Alexandra Hospital          facts and to depict
                                                                                  Many things are now         ‘just in case’ and the next     them truthfully and
                                                                                  a blur, including that      day she saw Dr. Essien          accurately. We try to
                                                                                  conversation, but I do      and had an ultrasound.          forgive ourselves and
                                                                                  know that very gently       This showed the baby in         others for our deficien-
                                                                                  he was encouraging          a breech position. She          cies and inadequacies.
                                                                                  me to write to try to       told the midwife that           We relied upon the
                                                                                  discourage home             same day. This should           professionalism of the
                                                                                  birthings. You have a       have been a red flag for a   midwife. It was a mis-
                                                                                  lot of influence, he        home birth. It was indi-     placed trust.
                                                                                  said. I demurred, but       cated that one of the mid-
                                                                                  let us see. Here is an      wife’s ‘helpers’ could
                                                                                  incomplete story of         turn the baby. She could-
                                                                                  our home birthing           n’t. The midwife made
                                                                                  Nakba.                      an appointment to check
                                                                                                              Valerie on December
        Publisher/Editor-in-Chief: Kenneth Williams                               Celia and I went to         23rd but she cancelled.      So, midwife, I address
                General Manager: Julio Rosario                                    England in May 2016.                                     you. More of the ‘if
                                                                                  On our return in early      The children were inno-      only’ and ‘what if’. Why
St. Kitts                    Nevis                                                June, the children told us  cent, and naive. All they    did you not, when you
POB 657, Lower Market Street #1 Observer Plaza, Observer Drive                    how happy they were         wanted was to give their     knew the result of the
Basseterre, St. Kitts, W.I.  Charlestown, Nevis, W.I.                             that Valerie was preg-      little boy, to be called     ultrasound, say that a
Tel.: (869) 466-4994         Tel.: (869) 469-5907                                 nant. We shared their       Jem in the family, the       home birth was potential-
Fax: (869) 466-4995          Fax: (869) 469-5891                                  delight. They would plan    most natural and easy        ly dangerous? Why did
Email:observsk@sisterisles.kn Email: observnv@sisterisles.kn                      a home birth, they said. I                               you pay no attention to
                                                                                  was against this, saying                                 the requests of the moth-
           Website: newstkittsnevisobserver.com                                   that if anything went                                    er when she said some
                                                                                  wrong, which most likely                                 three hours before the
Editorial Policy: The Observer reserves the right to edit, rewrite, summarise     it would not, then the                                   birth that she did not feel
or reject any unsolicited material. We will assume that all letters addressed to  hospital would have the                                  normal and wanted to go
The Observer or its staff are intended for publication unless otherwise stated.   equipment, drugs and                                     to the hospital? No
Letter writers are required to sign their names and are asked to include a tele-  experience needed. I was                                 woman in extreme labour
phone number to allow verification. Views expressed in letters, commentaries      insufficiently persuasive.                               is in a fit condition to
or personal columns do not necessarily represent the viewpoint of this news-      Indeed I felt warned off                                 insist. Your helper ‘M’
paper. Limit submissions to 1000 words                                            the subject. I expect I                                  told her that it was her
                                                                                  should have insisted and                                 first baby and she should
                                                                                  insisted, but who knows.                                 rest and have some tea.
                                                                                  This is only one of the                                  Why did you not over
                                                                                  “what ifs” that form the                                 rule your helper who is
                                                                                  chain of events bringing                                 not a midwife and
                                                                                  about our Nakba. Please                                  instead, accompany
                                                                                  go to see the gynaecolo-                                 Valerie to the hospital or
                                                                                  gist in St Kitts. He has a                               send for the ambulance?
                                                                                  good reputation. They                                    At 11.00 pm, a little over
                                                                                  checked him out and                                      three hours before the
                                                                                  made an appointment.                                     baby tried to emerge, you
                                                                                  They came back from                                      checked and found that
                                                                                  their visit tremendously                                 the cervix had dilated
                                                                                  happy. They liked him                                    only 2 cms, a measure-
                                                                                  and thought him very
                                                                                  professional. He took                                    Continued on page 22
                                                                                  ultrasound pictures, per-
                                                                                  haps unfortunately using

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