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because people say you’re wrong, you’re   were dating, he sent me this quote, and   through infertility struggles feel alone.     Technology
                  actually wrong.                 I’ve always remembered it: “Work is love   There’s a quote where Michelle Obama is
                                                  made visible”, and that for me is very   talking about what it’s like when people
                  What have you done so far that you’re   much how I approach work. Everyone   get to be in positions of power: “When
                  most proud of?                  has their own governing mantra for how   you finally get a seat at the table, people
                  Having a work life that’s aligned around   they work. For some, work is a place   are so grateful to be at the table, they
                  mission and purpose, I’m really proud of   where they go get money so they can   don’t shake the table.” What I’ve always
                  that, because it took a lot to do that. I did   pursue their other passions. I spend so   said is, “I’m not grateful”. I don’t mean
                  lots of different jobs to try to figure out   much time at work that I want my work   that I’m not grateful in a broader sense,
                  what I wanted to do. I had the courage to   to be aligned with my passions, aligned   but I don’t feel like I’m not deserving. I
                  not do what was expected of me, but to   with my vision for the world.  feel like I absolutely deserve to be at any
                  create a career that is aligned with what                       table where I am and I’m going to take
                  I think is valuable. I’m now even more so   What do you see as your most   the opportunity to make space for other
                  someone who’s not afraid to speak up.   important legacy?       people. As a black woman I’m going to
                  If I see injustice in the world or people   Being honest, being transparent. For   have the hard conversations about race,
                  being mistreated, I’m okay with being the   example, I will talk very transparently   about gender, and about all aspects of
                  person who says, “hey, wait, hang on, this   about our journey, euphemistically titled,   oppression. I’m not going to be excited
                  is wrong”, even if it costs me.  to having kids. It took for ever, there was   that, “hey, I made it”, and be happy that
                                                  IVF, there was every drug involved. I   it’s just me – I’m going to make the table
                  Do you have a favourite quote?  speak transparently about that because   wider to fit other people in and I’m not
                  I remember when my husband and I   I think a lot of women and families going   afraid to shake the table.



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