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            REMI PHILLIPS-
            HOOD, 21

               o be nurtured into a world of
            Tfreedom is the expectation of
            all our childhoods – for the old saying,
            “be whatever you want to be” to be a
            reality, and not a pipe dream. Yet for
            some of us, this isn’t the case.
             As a young boy, I was extremely
            fortunate to be born into a family with
            creative-minded people on my mother’s
            side, coupled with the more practical
            “suit and tie” values of my father.
            This juxtaposition gave me the
            equilibrium I needed to fi nd the route I
            wanted to choose, and the freedom to
            feel supported either way.
             For the fi rst time in our history in the
            United Kingdom, we are producing a
            critical mass of university graduates
            who are the children of graduates
            themselves. My parents both went to
            university, but they didn’t have the
            cultural capital and “safety net” of
            trial and error, and neither of them
            use their degree today. I see this as
            an “educational ignition” – the fi rst
            step required to give precedent to the
            next generation, to allow us to learn
            from any mistakes made by our fi rst-
            generation graduate parents.
             But these cemented blockages
            may also prevent future creative black
            spaces from growing.
             Our fi rst-generation graduate
            parents see practicality as the route to
            avoiding “failure”. As Reginald M Clark
            says, within African and Caribbean
            households, “values and priorities
            are often infl uenced by the family’s
            social status. While distinguishing
            ethnic infl uences from social status
            infl uences is diffi cult, it seems clear
            that among oppressed minorities,
            families face great problems in their
            efforts to shape their children’s
            futures so that they will experience
            a reasonable degree of success in
            school and adult life.”                                            One friend, of Nigerian descent,
             This is problematic as it provides                              told me how his creativity was not
            a “cookie cutter” solution to                                     taken seriously by his mum and dad.
            children’s futures and results in the                             “My parents thought the time I spent
            repression of creative endeavours,                                drawing was taking away from the
            as they are rejected as being “non-                                time I should have spent focusing on
            benefi cial”. Studies have focused                                 education.” Despite his artistic talent,
            on the importance of the home in                                    his focus was always on a scientifi c
            developing achievement patterns,                                    route and he is now completing a
            attitudes, and talent.                                              masters in physics at Oxford.
             I have been fortunate enough                                          Another friend, of Jamaican
            to pursue a creative career in                                       descent, told me how their
            the fi eld of architecture. But                                       creativity was cut short by their
            others have not been so lucky,                                        parents who wanted “instant
            as their families haven’t                                             gratifi cation” instead of pursuing
            fostered a well-rounded idea                                          an “uncertain creative path”.
            of achievement.                                                      This friend was encouraged to



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