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When you are exposed
                                                                                          to a whole new way of
                                                                                        living, you find that your
                                                                                        understanding of people
                                                                                          and society increases.










                                                                                     fellow students, who, apparently in
                                                                                     awe of the fact that I voluntarily moved
                                                                                     abroad, often say things like “How did
                                                                                     you do it?” or “I could never”.
                                                                                       I have realised that this is the
                                                                                     mindset of many students. I believe
                                                                                     most of these beliefs centre around
                                                                                     fear and lack of knowledge. Fear of
                                                                                     being seemingly alone in a foreign
                                                                                     country and lack of knowledge of the
                                                                                     wide amount of support available
                                                                                     for students abroad, both from your
                                                                                     university and the government.
                                                                                       Regarding fear, I know that this
                                                                                     is particularly prevalent within the
                                                                                     black community, as travelling alone
                                                                                     is probably not something most of
                                                                                     us grew up thinking we would do.
                                                                                     Furthermore, the stories you hear of
                                                                                     how black tourists have been treated
                                                                                     overseas can be intimidating and
                                                                                     disheartening. From my experience,
                                                                                     most of the ‘special treatment’ was
                                                                                     prolonged stares, and was largely based
                                                                                     on ignorance as opposed to actual
                                                                “Wish you were here!”   hatred. However, I chose to view this
                                                                in Barcelona         from a different perspective. Many of
                                                                                     these people are ignorant because their
                                                                                     exposure to black people has been
                                                                                     very limited. Therefore, why can’t I,
                                                                                     or any other young, educated, Afro-
                                                                                     Caribbean person living abroad, be the
                                                                                     positive example they need to show
                                                                                     them that black people exist beyond the
                   Montreal and a semester in Barcelona.    when I moved abroad was definitely   stereotype they have created?
                   I developed in so many ways during this   a culture shock, but it was extremely   The opportunities around the world
                   year: how to adapt to new situations and   necessary. When you are exposed to   are more accessible than ever. A lot
                   ways of learning, function in a society   a whole new way of living, you find   of us probably underestimate the
                   where I didn’t speak the language,   that your understanding of people and   likelihood that we will be required to
                   communicate and build relationships   society increases. I found that this   move abroad in the future, for example
                   with people from countries I knew   significantly amplified my future goals   a life-changing career opportunity that
                   nothing about, be independent and   and ambitions, as it made me realise   happens to be overseas. Undertaking
                   proactive with protecting my own   just how many opportunities there    a study or work abroad year whilst at
                   wellbeing... the list goes on.   are out there.                   university could be potentially the
                     Growing up as a black girl in London,   Speaking to people about my   practice run you need. Besides that,
                   I was very much settled in this bubble of   experience, both potential employers   the experience is undeniably character
                   a diverse society, where I have a similar   and my peers, I often find that they   building and beneficial in many ways.
                   way of living to the people around me.   are both impressed and intrigued. The   Don’t limit yourself by letting fear get
                   Breaking away from this familiarity   reactions that stand out most are from   the better of you.




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