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Respect for Women The following advice is provided by RESPECT VICTORIA (www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au), Domestic Violence Victoria, and the
Resources
What does the data tell us?
Gender inequality is one of the primary drivers of gender-based violence and family violence. We also know that other intersecting forms
of discrimination - including racism, ageism, homophobia, transphobia, and colonialism - are drivers of violence.
Click on the RESPECTING WOMEN AND GIRLS resource (www.respect.gov.au) below and discuss the information and advice on the
following page to get the conversation started in your classrooms, at home, and in your friendship groups.
Domestic Violence Resource Centre Victoria.
In Australia right now, the stats show that:
1 in 4 women have experienced violence by an intimate partner since the age of 15
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• Nearly 2 in 5 women with disabilities have experienced violence from a partner, ex-partner, or family member
1 in 3 LGBTIQ+ people have experienced violence from a partner, ex-partner, or family member
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1 in 3 migrant and refugee women living in Australia have experienced family violence
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95% of all victims of violence, regardless of gender, experience violence from a male perpetrator
The 2017 National Community Attitudes towards Violence Against Women Survey (NCAS) found that 40% of
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people believe that women exaggerate when they talk about inequality.
We can all play a role in preventing gender-based violence in all its forms - so join us with leading with respect and
calling out discrimination.
How can you call it out?
Disrespect can play out in our homes, workplaces, schools, communities and in the places we socialise. By calling
out disrespect, sexism, and other forms of discrimination early, we can stop violence before it starts.
There is no ‘right’ way to call it out, but we do have a few tips on techniques you might want to try. Don’t forget to
put your own safety first - if a situation is already violent or looks like it could turn that way, always call triple 000.
To get you started, here are 16 ways you can call out sexism and disrespect:
1. Don’t laugh at sexist jokes.
2. Give a disapproving look to show a behaviour or statement is not okay. Shake your head or roll your eyes.
3. Leave a pointed and uncomfortable silence
4. Make a light-hearted comment: “what century are you living in?”
5. Check in with the person affected: “I heard what he just said - are you okay?”
6. Privately let them know their behaviour is not okay: “The joke you made in yesterday’s meeting was not funny,
and actually not okay.”
7. Calmly disagree and state that the comment is wrong or unacceptable: “I know you probably didn’t mean it, but
I found what you said to be offensive.”
8. Speak up and educate by explaining why you disagree: “Actually evidence shows the vast majority of women
do not make up false claims of sexual assault.”
9. Challenge the logic: “That’s not my experience” or “what makes you think that?’
10. Stand up for the person affected: “Michelle was saying something, and you cut her off again”.
11. Make eye contact with the person affected - let them know you’re an ally.
12. Show your emotion: “It actually makes me sad / uncomfortable when you say that.”
13. Support others when they call it out: “I agree, that’s not funny”.
14. Appeal to their better self: “Come on, you’re better than that”.
15. Report the behaviour to management, or via incident reporting systems if available.
16. Disrupt or distract the situation to redirect the focus from the incident to someone else.
These tips are from the 16 Days of Activism toolkit.