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          Christmas Belongs To The

                            Poor



                        By Jeff Goins


          For years, I never understood Christmas.
          Admittedly, I was a bit of a Scrooge. It just
          seemed like the whole thing was a farce.
                 Every made-for-TV movie I watched
          between Thanksgiving and New Year’s preached
          the same gospel: “It’s not about presents.” But
          then, every Christmas morning, I was inundated
          with presents. It didn’t make sense. Someone
          was lying.
                 My parents, and probably yours, would
          conclude every Dec. 25 with the same nervous
          question: “So… did you get everything you
          wanted?”
                 Are you kidding me? Everything I
          wanted? Is this what we want to teach our
          children about life? That you can get everything
          you want?
                 I remember being a kid. I never got
          everything I wanted. (Thank God.) My parents
          had the best of intentions at heart. Most do. But
          this is telling of our culture.                Frasier meets a homeless man who tells him, hustle-and-bustle holiday, I hope you find an
                 Maybe it’s  America. Maybe it’s         rather pointedly, what Christmas is all about: opportunity to do something similar. (If you’re
          humanity at its most broken. But I shudder to  “The rest of the year belongs to rich people with looking for a way to give back, check out World
          think of the implications of that phrase:      their fancy houses and expensive foreign cars, Vision’s Gift Catalog. It’s one of the best ways I
          everything you want.                           but Christmas, Christmas belongs to guys like know to reconnect with the true spirit of
                 Over the years, I’ve grown cynical of   us.”                                            Christmas.) Because there’s just something
          Christmas. I’ve run out of good gift ideas, gotten     Frasier forgets his wallet and can’t cover about celebrating Christmas without the poor
          fed up with the shopping mall feeding frenzy   the cost of his meal. The homeless man and his that feels dishonest.
          and been downright angry at ungrateful people.  friends cover it.  This is the great irony and        May we connect with the story of a boy
          It’s made me want to write off the whole       paradox of Christmas, of learning to live born in a manger and find Christmas where it
          ridiculous holiday. (Told you I was a Scrooge.)  compassionately:  We don’t give to the poor; belongs — in humble places, like barns and
                 But there’s another story to tell.      they give to us.                                dumps and alleys. This is where we’ll find baby
                 When Mary finds out she’s pregnant              One Sunday afternoon in 2007, I drove a Jesus, if we’re willing to look. And maybe He
          with the Jesus, she sings a song—a pretty      car full of Christmas presents to a small rented will lead us, like He promised, out of our own
          interesting one:                               house in south Nashville. A family of three lived prisons. []
                 He has brought down rulers from their   in that home—without a phone, sometimes
          thrones but has lifted up the humble.          without heat and seemingly without hope.               I Heard The Bells On
                 He has filled the hungry with good              A week before, this family didn’t think
          things but has sent the rich away empty.       they were going to be able to have Christmas at     Christmas Day - Poem by
                 He has helped his servant Israel,       all that year. But there was another story to be         Henry Wadsworth
          remembering to be merciful to Abraham and his  told.
          descendants forever, even as he said to our            A church group of about 30 people                      Longfellow
          fathers. (Luke 1:52-55)                        banded together to buy gifts, food, toys and
                 When I first read this, I swear I heard  more for this family. The best Christmas gift I  I heard the bells on Christmas day
          Santa Claus instantly drop dead of a heart attack.  received that year—maybe ever—was the look  Their old familiar carols play,
          “He has sent the rich away empty …” Does that  on the two children’s faces as I pulled up in my  And wild and sweet the words repeat
          sound like everything you wanted? Not quite.   Buick, the back seat and trunk full of presents  Of peace on earth, good will to men.
                 God loves the poor. He is among them.   from perfect strangers.
          And if we are going to celebrate the birth of His      “How could this be?” they marveled.      I thought how, as the day had come,
          Son with any sense of conscience, we must be   They were told Santa wasn’t coming this year.    The belfries of all Christendom
          with them, as well.                            This had to be magic. And indeed it was.         Had rolled along th'unbroken song
                 A few years ago, I spent the month of           After a long hiatus, I believed in       Of peace on earth, good will to men.
          December hanging out with a community of       Christmas again.
          homeless men and women who lived under a               Christmas belongs to the poor—let’s not  And in despair I bowed my head:
          bridge in downtown Nashville. My friend Paul   forget that. We should be raising our glasses to  'There is no peace on earth, ' I said
          and I brought them candy canes, shoes and      them, to the outcast and the hungry, the         'For hate is strong, and mocks the song
          coats. Sure, we gave them gifts. But they gave us  handicapped and oppressed. Maybe if we’re    Of peace on earth, good will to men.'
          a gift we could never repay: They opened our   lucky, they’ll let us in on the true spirit of the
          eyes to the spirit of Christmas.               season.                                          Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
                 As it turns out, it’s not about holiday                                                  'God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;
          specials and sugar cookies. Nor is it about    This year, my wife and I are doing something     The wrong shall fail, the right prevail,
          getting everything you ever wanted.  Through   different for Christmas. No, we won’t be         With peace on earth, good will to men.'
          the dirty and downtrodden and nearly forgotten,  celebrating it on the streets (unless the
          I learned what Dec. 25 is really about:        opportunity presents itself). However, we will   Till, ringing, singing on its way,
          compassion.                                    be finding a way to connect with those in need.  The world revolved from night to day
                 I caught an old rerun of Frasier the other  We’re buying gifts. But not just any kind of  A voice, a chime, a chant sublime,
          night. It was a Christmas episode. On the show,  gifts. The kind that make a difference. In your  Of peace on earth, good will to men.
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