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Foreword




 I first met Morpheous a few years back at his local breakfast haunt in Toronto. As he approached,   Though I had read and studied hundreds of sexuality books before reviewing Bondage Basics,
 clad in all black from head to toe, I felt a powerful presence descend upon me. I’m unsure if it was   I still learned a great deal from Morpheous’ new material. From reviewing standard terminology
 his height, his saunter, or simply his energy, but there was something undeniably and unsurprisingly   and offering sage advice for effective communication, to providing step-by-step introductions for
 dominant about the way he carried himself. When he reached out to shake my hand and introduce   knot tying and negotiating boundaries, Bondage Basics guides the reader on an exciting and kinky
 himself with a smile, however, his decided strength was immediately overshadowed by his warmth   journey. Each chapter builds upon the former in a natural and easy-to-follow sequence. And
 and mild-mannered nature. It took only a short moment for me to appreciate that beneath the   because the risk associated with rope play may be higher than other forms sexual activity, the
 ostensibly intense exterior was a man of complexity, humility, and kindness.   author complements every move, technique, and strategy with sensible safety advice, which is
                      sure to be relevant to newbie and experienced kinksters alike.
 Bondage Basics reflects this complexity of character, offering a balance of humor, playfulness,
 education, sensuality, eroticism, and practical advice for beginner and intermediate rope play.   In addition to offering a more expansive perspective on bondage, Morpheous, who is renowned for
 Morpheous brilliantly weaves personal anecdotes together with standard best practices to offer a   valuing and protecting his personal privacy, also offers readers a rare glimpse into his personal story.
 thorough exploration of bondage as a form of art and pleasure. From the onset, it is apparent that   I’m not the least bit surprised to learn that he grew up on a farm—he certainly doesn’t mind getting
 the author has put great personal care into the text in the same fashion as he would when playing   his hands more than a little dirty—and I’m equally unsurprised to discover that the world’s largest
 out a scene with one of his rope bunnies.  bondage event, which he launched over a decade ago, is free to attend, as he has a reputation for
                      his generosity of spirit, time, and resources. The author’s passion for bondage may have made him
 When I first opened this book, I was struck by the beautiful images and was surprised to see a few   an involuntary innovator in his early years of experimentation, but Bondage Basics will ensure that
 familiar faces . . . and rear ends! Morpheous clearly had a hand in selecting the models and styling   Morpheous’ cultural influence endures as readers are inspired to carve out their own paths and
 the shoot. And though the aesthetic appeal of Bondage Basics is indisputable, it is the text that is   develop their own meaningful innovations.
 most meaningful, thoughtful, and moving. Reading this book, I couldn’t help but develop a more
 profound appreciation for rope play and its expressive bond with BDSM. While I have always loved   Morpheous is not just a kink educator and sought-after expert; he’s also a collector, connoisseur,
 being tied up and have long considered power play (see page 83) the most delightful of all sexual   and trailblazer in the field of rope bondage and BDSM. It is an honor and pleasure to both preview
 indulgences, I was admittedly a rope play neophyte before sinking my teeth into Morpheous’ latest   and offer a small contribution to such an important and beautiful project.
 book. Upon completion of the text, not only have I been inspired to replace my silk scarves and   Read with pleasure!
 designer neckties with a selection of soft, pink nylon rope, but the author’s review of the fascinating
 history associated with this “loving, sensual, and erotic activity” has broadened my perception of
 rope bondage in terms of art, pleasure, and cultural practice.                           —Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D.
                                                              Author of The Little Book of Kink and The New Sex Bible
 The public’s interest in kink has also broadened over the last few years with the rise of BDSM-  www.SexWithDrJess.com
 themed books and movies. And while these fictional stories have sparked an important dialogue
 about consent, relationships, and kinky sex play, those fictional accounts offer little to no direction
 with regard to the implementation of kink. That’s where Bondage Basics comes in.


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