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You explained some things that have been tricky for you in the

last week or so:

1. A girl in your class has been prickly with you and all of your friends.

I wonder why she is being prickly like this? Are her 5C Needs being met?

2. There are times when you feel a bit left out by one friend who runs off

and plays with others without talking to you first - as if you do not count

as much as the others.

3. You get on well with another friend but every now and again you feel

she drops you. You later solve it – but not properly. You forgive her but

she keeps repeating this. You feel she has the control, and you do not.

Can you spot the 5C Needs in in all of these problems?

We recapped on Positions as a first step to solving

these problems:

From a feeling of to being solution-

helplessness focused