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What do we learn from the Jas problem?

WHEN THINGS GO WRONG IN THE MOMENT:

1. Do a Mindsearch:

Get into your own brain and the

brains of the other people involved.

I feel I feel connected I feel I count & I feel capable I feel a sense of

belong
control
comfortable
3. Think needs:

which of their needs are met

well? Not met so well? How about your needs?

4. React in a way that puts their needs UP, not DOWN

Make sure you help the person to have MORE feel good

chemicals in their body, not more cortisol / stress chemicals.