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The Stop Start Action Tool



                   A tool to help a person work out what they want to be different and how to get there.



          Before trying to solve problems, make sure the focus has moved from

          what they want to STOP to what they want to START:























            I want to stop                                I want to start                               To do this, I now

                                                                                                        need to ..


            I want to stop getting grumpy  I want to start taking charge                                Improve my skills in emotional
            when things don’t go my way.                  of my feelings and using a calm  regulation.
                                                          voice with people when things                 To do this, I first need to
                                                          don’t go my way.                              a) notice the signs that I am

                                                                                                        getting prickly b) use my new
                                                                                                        ‘become calm’ strategy.




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