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Not better, not worse – just different
































































































                            Determined Donkey skills  Flexi Fox skills are great


















                            are great for:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            for:


















                            ▪ Keeping to what they believe in and                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     ▪ Adapting to change















                                              staying loyal to a cause or passion; for





                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      ▪ Being emotionally flexible: being able








                                              example, supporting a football team




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        to look at the big picture and positives








                                              even when they keep losing, or





                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        and feel ok again quickly after a








                                              staying friends with someone who is




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        disappointment.








                                              not so popular.














                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      ▪ Being socially flexible – able to











                            ▪ Saying no to things that are unsafe or                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    compromise and give up a bit of what














                                              unkind, even when other people are                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        they wanted for everyone to feel good.















                                              pressuring them to do it.








                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      ▪ Seeing different perspectives
















                            ▪ Keeping going and staying on track                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      ▪ Changing from one task to another















                                              even when others change their mind.


















                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      ▪ Thinking of different solutions.






                            ▪ Persuading and inspiring people.































                            ▪ Keeping to the rules.
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