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The ConEDsequence



                Punishment can destroy the brain




                ConEDsequences build the brain




                                  A conEDsequence is a way of coaching and problem-
                                  solving which takes the issue of the behaviour

                                  seriously whilst being carried out in a spirit of
                                  kindness and support. No blame, no shame.





      A conEDsequence uses coaching to:

      1. PROBE: Work out needs, stressors & missing skills


      2. PLAN: the scaffolds & skills practice needed to manage better next time

      3. PROTECT: Plan how to protect others from harm whilst skills are built.

      4. REPAIR: Focus on the child taking responsibility to repair harm done


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