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The Blamer
The Blamer is someone who judges, criticises or blames other people
when things aren’t how they want them to be.
If you have slipped into a Blamer position, you might hear yourself
saying:
If they could just be
The trouble with him a bit more …
is ….
You just need to get
She’s useless! on with it!
She’s always picking This is rubbish!
on me.
It’s their fault! If it wasn’t for you, it
would all be fine.
Adapted by K Messenger from The Drama Triangle by S Karpman.
