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     The Challenger
     The Challenger positively challenges something they don’t feel ok about.
     They provide clear evidence, say what impact it has and what they’d like to
     be different/what would be better.
     If you are challenging, you might hear yourself saying:
          What didn’t work so                                                    When I’m told about absences just
           well for me was ….                                                       before the start of the day, I ….
         When I heard people                                                                              I think “Oh no, I’m
             say … I thought                                                                              never going to get
                                                                                                              this all done!”
         The impact for me is                                                                              I then get anxious
                                                                                                             and can’t sleep.
        What I would prefer next                                                What I would like is to have at least
                    time is ….                                                      3 nights to complete the work.
                                                                                            Adapted by K Messenger from The Drama Triangle by S Karpman.





