Page 64 - Ali Allies Flipbook Final 2023

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She treats me like a child. I don’t want to be treated like a child. I want to be treated like an equal adult.

They are pick on me. I want them to stop picking on me. I want them to treat me with kindness.

She explodes whenever things I want her to stop exploding when I want her to develop the skills to regulate

don’t go her way. things don’t go her way. her emotions when she is disappointed.

I want to start increasing my resilience

I want to stop running off when a

I’ve got no resilience. so he can tolerate challenge for longer

piece of work is challenging.

amounts of time.

He flies off the handle I want him to stop hitting out when I want him to get better at frustration

whenever his team are losing. his team are losing. control so he can tolerate the unpleasant

feeling of losing.

I want him to start getting back at the

He’s always late. I want him to stop being late.

time we agreed.

I want her to start noticing the good

She is such a nag. I want her to stop nagging me. stuff I do. I want her to let me know

what she would like in positive ways.

I want her to stop chucking her I want her to start putting her clothes

Her room is a bombsite.

clothes on the floor. straight in the wash basket.