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Key Messages: Shifting Mindset










            The traditional behaviourist approach relies on the child having sufficient

            desire for the reward and fear of the punishment.                                                                                  1





                               It also needs the reward or punishment to remain at the forefront of the
             2                 child’s mind.







            The behaviourist approach assumes the child has the skills to manage in the
            moment; it assumes their difficulty is a matter of‘will not skill’.                                                                3




                               Using‘carrots’and‘sticks’can seem effective in the short-term, but it does
            4                  not address unmet needs and missing skills and thus secure long-term,

                               sustainable improvement. Children’s difficulties can keep ‘popping back up’.



           Expectations of children can still be kept high in a therapeutically and
           neurodiversity-informed approach.  We can be ‘insistent, persistent,                                                                5

           consistent, with a bucketful of kindness’.
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