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Helping people feel in control in helpful ways




      Top tips to help someone increase their sense of control



                                          Agree
                                      expectations        Agree expectations with the person rather than telling them ‘rules’. This also helps
                                                          to develop social cognition.
                                         together

                                         Discuss,         Let the person know your needs and what would be great for you rather than

                                         don’t tell       ‘telling’ them what to do.


                                       Give limited
                                         choices          Give limited choices to the person as often as possible.



                                       Prep4Best          Discuss things that will be happening ahead of time.




                                          Create          Help to give certainty by using calendars, pictorial schedules, social stories,
                                         certainty        previews and pre-visits.



                                     Work out baby
                                           steps          Work out small steps towards a goal so they feel capable.



                                      Be clear and        Make instructions short and clear and use pictures and diagrams so the person
                                         concise          feels certain about what is expected.



                                      Support self-
                                        advocacy          Help them learn ways to influence positively using our ‘Speak Up 4 Better’ tool.
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