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Dopamine                                                                                                                                                                         Oxytocin                                                                                                                                                             Serotonin                                                                                                                                                          Endorphins

















                                   I’M CAPABLE                                                                                                                                                  I’M CONNECTED                                                                                                                                                                                           I COUNT                                                                                                                                   I’M ON CLOUD 9!































































































                                      The motivator.                                                                                                                                                           The trust drug.                                                                                                                                         The happy hormone.                                                                                                                                                                                             The high.








                 Flows when we succeed                                                                                                                                                                  Flows when we feel                                                                                                                                                        Flows when we feel                                                                                                                                           Flows when we exercise








          and keeps us coming back                                                                                                                                                     supported and connected                                                                                                                                                     important and of value –                                                                                                                                                                                   hard or laugh







                for more. It’s the feeling                                                                                                                                                                                          to others.                                                                                                                      when we feel we matter,                                                                                                                                                                                uncontrollably.








               ‘Yes! I did it!’ or ‘I got it!’                                                                                                                                                     It’s the calming drug.                                                                                                                                      are needed and we count.                                                                                                                                                                            The pain reliever.












      HOW TO GET IT:                                                                                                                                                            HOW TO GET IT:                                                                                                                                                            HOW TO GET IT:                                                                                                                                                            HOW TO GET IT:











                                                                                                                                                                                ▪ Get back in touch with





      ▪ Start a new hobby                                                                                                                                                                     someone you have not                                                                                                                                        ▪ Go for a walk outside                                                                                                                                                   ▪ Read a joke book










                                                                                                                                                                                              spoken to for a while.





      ▪ Work with an adult to                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             ▪ Do some gardening                                                                                                                                                       ▪ Watch some comedy








                    set some mini goals of                                                                                                                                      ▪ Join a club to meet new








                    things you want to get                                                                                                                                                    people – think about                                                                                                                                        ▪ Help cook a meal                                                                                                                                                        ▪ Do a Joe Wick’s workout








                    good at.                                                                                                                                                                  things you are interested




                                                                                                                                                                                              in – an art club?                                                                                                                                           ▪ Do something to help                                                                                                                                                    ▪ Do 50 star jumps












      ▪ Use Circles of Control                                                                                                                                                                Gardening club?                                                                                                                                                           someone in the house








                    Model which we looked                                                                                                                                       ▪ Do the 2-minute








                    at before to focus on                                                                                                                                                     Connection Game –                                                                                                                                           ▪ Look at possible







                    what you can control.                                                                                                                                                     listen to someone with                                                                                                                                                    volunteering work –








                                                                                                                                                                                              your FULL attention for 1                                                                                                                                                 even for an hour a







                                                                                                                                                                                              minute then swap.                                                                                                                                                         week. Visiting the











                                                                                                                                                                                ▪ Send someone a letter                                                                                                                                                                 elderly? Helping out at








                                                                                                                                                                                              or card or make them a                                                                                                                                                    an animal sanctuary?








                                                                                                                                                                                              piece of art.                                                                                                                                                             Helping with some






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        gardening?



                                                                                                                                                                                ▪ Do something to help








                                                                                                                                                                                              someone
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