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Strong Flexibility Checklist







     SKILL                                                                                              I DEMONSTRATED THIS SKILL

     5. I CAN COMPROMISE

     a.   I can think of ways to compromise.


     b.   I can compromise: I am able to give up a bit of what I would like so that everyone’s
          needs are met better.

     c.   I can be flexible enough to follow an instruction or direction given by someone else.
          I can feel a sense of control over what happens to me even when someone else is
          giving the directions.


     d.   I can follow someone else’s way of doing something, even if it is different to the
          one I felt was best.

     6. I CAN BE EMOTIONALLY FLEXIBLE & LOOK AT THE WIDER PICTURE


     a.   When I am experiencing an unpleasant feeling such as sadness, jealousy, shame or
          disappointment, I know it will not last forever and I can think of wider positive
          things to help soothe myself.

     b.   When something is difficult or unpleasant, I can remember that this will not be
          forever and there will be happier moments ahead.

     c.   When I am upset by something that has happened, I can take a wider perspective
          by thinking of positive things in my life.
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