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I explained that our brain can react




















                           differently when its 5C Needs are not met:






















                           Under threat,                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               When in safety, the

















                           the brain reacts:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           brain reacts:



























                                                                                                                                                 EMOTIONAL: I need to






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               STEADY: I can be calm






                                                                                                                                                 be emotional – shout






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               and steady – I don’t






                                                                                                                                                 and scream so others






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               need to call for help.






                                                                                                                                                 come and rescue me






























                                                                                                                                                 RIGID: I need to be






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               FLEXIBLE: I know I am






                                                                                                                                                 rigid and focus only on






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               safe so I can think of






                                                                                                                                                 one thing - what I






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               others too.





                                                                                                                                                 need to survive























                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               DELIBERATE: I can take














                                                                                                                                                 IMPULSIVE: I need to                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          my time and think













                                                                                                                                                 be impulsive and react                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        things through – I don’t














                                                                                                                                                 quickly to danger                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             have to make urgent














                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               decisions to stay safe.






















                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               FOCUSED: I do not need






                                                                                                                                                 ALERT: I need to be






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               to worry about dangers






                                                                                                                                                 alert and on guard to






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               around me. I can focus






                                                                                                                                                 any dangers around us






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               on one task.
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