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How strong are your brain habits?































                                I explained how the things we say and do can                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Do you hide and freeze?                                                                                                                               Do you avoid?                                                                                                                   Do you run?


















                                become strong brain habits.































                                Let’s say, whenever Ali doesn’t feel she counts, she                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Do you avoid?                                                                                                                                        Do you run?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Do you hide and freeze?



                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Do you avoid?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Do you run?
                                                                                                                                                                                             Do you hide and freeze?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Do you mask or bury?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Do you throw?







                                avoids talking about it. She doesn’t tell anyne how                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             scared!                                                                    I’m
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                                things are for her.



























                                Instead of dealing with the prickle and telling










                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Do you mask or bury?
                                                                                                                                                                                            Do you throw?                                                                                                                                         Do you throw?                                                                                                                                                                 Do you mask or bury?




                                someone she is feeling bad, she hides tries to run                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               I’m                                                                            I’m





                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             I’m
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             I’m




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     scared!                                                                                                                                             scared!



                                from the unpleasant feeling or tells people she is fine.































                                If she keeps doing this, the brain pathways for


















                                avoiding difficulty become stronger.




































                              It becomes a strong brain habit. Just like the more

















                              threads holding a button on to a coat, the stronger the


















                              button stays on. Good and bad habits can become strong.







































                              The good news is that we can change those habits. It just takes lots of


















                              time, effort practice. We will look at that more next time.
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