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www.i-am-magazine.comThe people we invite into our hearts, thefriendships we nurture, and the trust we buildalong the way all shape how we experience thatjourney. During our weekend together, it wasn%u2019tabout fancy plans or curated moments%u2014it wasabout presence. The conversations were rich,not because they were perfect, but becausethey were real. We talked about our struggles,our triumphs, our faith journeys, and the roadsless traveled that shaped us. That transparency%u2014that trust%u2014is what made the time together sopowerful.In a world that often encourages independenceover interdependence, we must remember thatrelationships, rooted in trust and guided byfaith, are the true treasures of life. Trust is thefoundation of any lasting relationship. It opensthe door to vulnerability, honesty, and deeperconnection. But trust isn%u2019t something we givelightly; it is earned and must be maintained.This requires discernment, courage, and astrong foundation in faith. With these, ourthoughts, choices, and connections help us tosee people as God sees them, opening ourhearts to healthy, meaningful relationships thatbring life, support, and joy.My Transparent MomentAbout a month ago, I encountered anunpleasant experience with people whom Iconsidered %u201cfriends%u201d. It was hurtful, and Iallowed fear and resentment to creep in. I wasgoing back into my shell to protect myself fromhurt and harm. But because God has such agenuine love for me, He wouldn%u2019t let me staythere. I forgave and released.However, I didn%u2019t know if or when I would openmy circle again. And then, I was reminded of thefriendships I already had%u2014connections throughour faith and love%u2014 for almost 20 years. I hadthe opportunity to spend two weekends back-toback with these beautiful ladies%u2014one dear sisterwith whom we%u2019ve experienced a lot of life andministry together, and the group of six ladieswith whom I traveled and ministered in worship,dance, and bonded in life. For both occasions, Igot to spend time at my peaceful place%u2014thebeach%u2014and for both, we found that our timetogether had more purpose than we originallythought. God orchestrated each moment, eachlaugh, and each tear. For me, I was blessed notonly from being with my sister-friends, but alsobecause God so lovingly reminded me of the lifelong true friends I already had. We poured intoeach other and received what He had for each ofus. It was a gift.46