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In	 my	 cheapo	 daily	 planner	 that	 I	 bought	 at	 an	 office	 supply	 store,	 I	 jot	 down
the	one,	two,	or	three	things	that	I	feel	I	must	do	today—that	are	for	ME.	There	are
a	 couple	 of 	 reasons	 why	 this	 is	 an	 important	 step:	 one,	 because	 I	 am	 a	 visual
person,	 and	 two,	 according	 to	 research	 by	 Dominican	 University	 of 	 California
psychology	 professor	 Dr.	 Gail	 Matthews,	 by	 simply	 writing	 down	 your	 goals,	 you
are	42%	more	likely	to	achieve	them.

    Having	them	written	in	my	planner	means	that	I’ll	see	them	throughout	the	day
and	 be	 reminded	 to	 act.	 Having	 the	 “why”	 statement	 reminds	 me	 of 	 why	 these
goals	are	important	and	gives	me	an	added	push.

    If 	I	put	them	in	my	electronic	calendar,	I’ll	forget	about	it.	Half 	the	time,	I	walk
into	a	room	and	can’t	remember	what	I	walked	in	for—so	I	“stalk	myself 	with	my
musts”	 by	 keeping	 them	 written	 down.	 When	 they	 are	 in	 my	 planner,	 which	 is
something	that	I	look	at	throughout	the	day,	I’m	cued	visually.	Seeing	my	“musts”
reminds	 me	 to	 do	 these	 tasks.	 You	 can	 do	 this	 in	 a	 notebook,	 in	 your	 calendar,
wherever—just	write	them	down	and	keep	them	with	you,	just	like	Sharon	does:

    6.	I	plan	my	day	and	take	30	before	7:30	a.m.
    I	plan	and	often	execute	the	most	important	“musts”	FIRST,	before	I	check	my
phone	 or	 go	 online	 and	 check	 email.	 I	 do	 this	 using	 a	 tool	 I	 call	 “30	 before	 7:30
a.m.”
    I	take	30	minutes	before	7:30	a.m.	to	plan	out	my	day.	During	this	time	block,	I
either	start	working	on	my	two	or	three	musts	or	I	schedule	time	to	get	them	done
later	in	the	day.	If 	I	am	home,	I	try	to	start	this	planning	session	at	7:00	a.m.	when
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