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So	 how	 on	 earth	 does	 he	 stop	 this?	 Luckily,	 there’s	 three	 simple	 and	 research-
backed	steps.	And,	the	#5SecondRule	will	help	you	5-	4-	3-	2-	1	do	them.	Whether
you	 are	 avoiding	 work	 like	 Scott,	 cleaning	 like	 Evelyn,	 or	 exercising	 like	 @JLosso
once	was,	you	can	use	the	Rule	to	beat	procrastination	every	time.

Forgive	Yourself

    The	first	thing	research	tells	us:	you	need	to	forgive	yourself 	for	procrastinating.
Seriously.	This	isn’t	Kumbaya—this	is	science.

    Remember	 our	 expert	 from	 Carleton	 University?	 Dr.	 Pychyl	 co-authored	 a
paper	 about	 how	 students	 who	 forgave	 themselves	 for	 procrastinating	 were	 less
likely	to	procrastinate	on	their	next	test.	Sounds	silly,	but	part	of 	the	problem	that
psychologists	 have	 uncovered	 is	 that	 procrastinators	 are	 really	 hard	 on	 themselves
to	begin	with.

    Trishke	found	that	after	she	was	able	to	forgive	herself,	she	changed	her	life.
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