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I	 love	 what	 he	 said	 at	 the	 end:	 “Win	 or	 lose,	 at	 least	 I’m	 doing	 something!”	 It
takes	a	lot	of 	bravery	to	be	able	to	get	honest	with	yourself 	and	admit	how	hard	it
is	to	focus	on	what	you	need	to	do.

    Another	perfect	example	is	our	PhD	student	in	the	lab,	Scott.	Remember	what
he	 wrote?	 He	 said	 he	 has	 “very	 high	 expectations	 for	 myself.”	 Every	 time	 he
procrastinates	 he	 feels	 shame	 and	 guilt.	 Those	 negative	 feelings	 then	 create	 even
more	stress	for	Scott	as	his	“confidence	in	overcoming	this	by	myself 	is	starting	to
fade,”	which	causes	him	to	feel	even	more	stress	and	procrastinate	even	more.
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