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We	 often	 fail	 to	 appreciate	 the	 profound	 power	 held	 inside	 the	 smallest
moments	of 	our	relationships	as	our	days	race	by.	I	recently	had	something	happen
that	reminded	me	of 	the	importance	of 	slowing	down,	being	present,	“saying	it,”
and	tuning	into	your	heart	when	it	speaks	to	you.

    A	 man	 sent	 me	 a	 Facebook	 message	 after	 hearing	 me	 speak,	 and	 asked	 me	 to
check	 out	 a	 memorial	 page	 for	 a	 family	 friend	 named	 Josh	 Woodruff.	 He	 felt	 that
Josh	was	the	epitome	of 	a	person	who	lived	his	life	to	the	fullest,	and	embodied	the
#5SecondRule.

    On	 an	 instinct,	 I	 clicked	 on	 the	 link	 to	 the	 memorial	 page	 on	 Facebook.	 The
first	 thing	 I	 saw	 was	 a	 post	 from	 a	 woman	 named	 Mary.	 It	 was	 a	 beautiful	 post
about	 the	 intimacy	 and	 connectedness	 we	 all	 want	 in	 life	 and	 how	 we	 pull	 back
from	it	for	the	silliest	reasons.	A	week	before	Josh	was	killed	by	a	hit-and-run	driver
in	New	Orleans,	Mary	had	seen	him	in	the	grocery	store	but	“didn’t	say	anything	to
him.”	I’ll	let	her	tell	you	the	story:
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