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That	 is	 how	 the	 system	 in	 your	 brain	 works—the	 longer	 that	 you	 think	 about
something,	the	lower	your	urge	to	act	becomes.	We	are	amazing	at	fooling	ourselves
into	staying	exactly	where	we	are.	As	soon	as	that	impulse	to	act	kicks	in,	you	start
rationalizing	 it	 away.	 That’s	 why	 you’ve	 got	 to	 move	 faster—so	 you	 can	 break	 free
of 	your	excuses	before	your	mind	traps	you.

What	Can	I	Use	It	For?

    Over	 the	 years,	 we’ve	 heard	 thousands	 of 	 examples	 of 	 how	 people	 are	 using
the	Rule	to	improve	their	life,	relationships,	happiness,	and	work.	But	every	example
falls	into	one	of 	three	distinct	categories	for	how	you	can	use	it.

•	You	Can	Use	It	to	Change	Your	Behavior

    You	can	use	the	Rule	to	push	yourself 	to	create	new	habits,	pull	yourself 	away
from	destructive	habits,	and	master	the	skills	of 	self-monitoring	and	self-control	so
that	 you	 can	 be	 more	 intentional	 and	 effective	 in	 your	 relationships	 with	 yourself
and	others.

•	You	Can	Use	It	to	Act	with	Everyday	Courage

    You	 can	 use	 the	 Rule	 to	 discover	 the	 courage	 you	 need	 to	 do	 things	 that	 are
new,	scary,	or	uncertain.	The	Rule	will	quiet	your	self-doubt	and	build	confidence	as
you	push	yourself 	to	pursue	your	passions,	share	your	ideas	at	work,	volunteer	for
projects	that	stretch	you,	create	your	art,	and	become	a	better	leader.

•	You	Can	Use	It	to	Control	Your	Mind

    You	 can	 use	 the	 Rule	 to	 stop	 the	 barrage	 of 	 negative	 thoughts	 and	 endless
worries	that	weigh	you	down.	You	can	also	break	the	habit	of 	anxiety	and	beat	any
fear.	When	you	take	control	of 	your	mind,	you’ll	be	able	to	think	about	things	that
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