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●  Have you had to deal with this sort of situation before?
                      Recall your feelings and emotions and how you coped
                      with it.

                     ●  What statements have helped or hurt you?

                     ●  Have you planned or celebrated the anniversary of your
                      loved ones birth date, death date or original due date?

                     ●  Do you have any self-blame?

                     ●  How are you overcoming the ‘blame game’ your head is
                      playing? Where are you in this process?

                     ●  What does joy coming in the morning look like to you?

                     ●  What did you do with your baby’s body? How did you
                      come to this decision?
                     ●  Did you feel any pressure from others about the choice
                      you made?

                     ●  How did it feel as if you received their ashes? Are they in
                      an urn, box or special place you spread them? Are they
                      on your shelf?

                     ●  What does the headstone say? Any special features you
                      included to make it your child’s story?

                     ●  Are you torn with blaming others in the pain?

                     ●  How do you deal with the questions about how many
                      kids do you have?
                     ●  People always have suggestions and opinions. How do
                      you manage?

                     ●  Will you try or be able to try for more children?

                     ●  Is an international or private adoption a possibility?
                     ●  How are you honoring the life of your little one?

                     ●  Are you in a place of wanting to help others that are a
                      few steps behind you in their grief journey?
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