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KERALITE
                                                                                                               2018

                together. She kept me and my dad sane. She also        do to each other when we are angry and we let our
                made me realize how important it was to be a           emotions run high. It has been this way between my
                phenomenal big brother to my little sister Ashley.     dad and I for a long time. Earlier today, I talked to
                                                                       my mom about it. Of course, she was once again
                Mom Made Me Want To Be A Better                        the mediator.
                Man
                                                                       “Your dad was upset and emotional last night. I
                Mom always made me want to be a better man. She        know he said a lot of hurtful things to you but he
                made me want to be a better big brother. She made      doesn’t actually mean any of those things. Please
                me want to be ten times better than my dad. She        try to be more understanding of where he is coming
                made me realize what a high quality woman acts         from. He loves you and cares about you very much.
                like every single day. Mom made me want to step up     He doesn’t know how to express it though. Please
                to any challenge and face it head on. She made me      forgive him.”
                want to be the very best at every single thing I ever
                did. I wanted to make Mom proud. I wanted to hear      After talking to her for a few minutes and venting to
                the words “I’m proud of you” from my parents so I      her I felt much better. She lets me get out all my
                did my very best. I knew my mom was more likely to     frustrations and she doesn’t judge me. She always
                tell me she was proud of me than my dad was.           forgave me when I yelled at her or said hurtful
                                                                       things. I can’t help but listen to her when she tells
                Still I never thanked her enough.
                                                                       me to forgive my dad for doing the same things to
                I am such a strong type A personality, it’s sickening   me. She lives by example.
                sometimes. However, she has always been                Mom made me want to hustle harder than everyone
                understanding. She is completely opposite to me in     else. Mom made me want to live a better life and
                a lot of ways. Yet, we are very similar in a lot of ways   provide a better life for my family.
                too. I never realized what a great sense of humor
                she had until a few years ago. We play o  each         I know I never thanked her enough. It took me 30
                other very well. We can make a room full of people     years to write this post but I just needed to let the
                love us and we can keep everybody laughing. She is     world know how much she means to me.
                such a comedian. She always has been, I just never
                realized it until recently.                            I hope you all tell your own mothers how much they
                                                                       mean to you. Life is too short. Don’t be like me and
                Still I never thanked her enough.                      wait 30 years to do it.

                Yesterday, my dad and I got into a bad argument        Thank you for everything you have done for me
                over the phone. He said a lot of hurtful things to me   Mom. I love you so much.
                and I know I said hurtful things back. That’s what we
                                                                       Keep hustlin’


















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