Page 186 - Graphic1
P. 186

SSB   |   177

                      Explanation—The demand of the social situations are conflict settlement, conflict adjustment.
                   You will always find conflict for your adjustment and judgement with your father, teachers, brothers,
                   sisters, girl friend, colleagues, authorities, neighbours, stepmother etc. The answer of the conflict
                   oriented situations are the “amicable settlement” only.

                      Neither the first, second or the third party should suffer, the only answer is the amicable settlement or
                    adjustment, for that the quick and adequate adjustment and judgement is required.

                      I will take one situation from the above series of situations that is—
                      Situation—He found his stepmother was unduly harsh with him after his father’s death. He………
                      Interpretation—
                                   1                        2                   3


                              Stepmother               Dead Father       The candidate himself





















                      Activities—His stepmother is unduly harsh with him.
                      The answer and reaction—The only reaction/answer is the amicable settlement. There should not
                   be any conflict between you and your stepmother because—
                      Explanation—Your father is no more, your step mother is not comfortable and harshed lady. She
                   should not suffer. The only answer is your amicable adjustment and settlement.
                      Answer/Reaction—Realise the fault once again, reside happily with stepmother.
                      Leadership Situation—Consider the following situations :—
                   1.  He found that his Principal was misusing the funds meant for student's welfare. He…
                   2.  He had gone for NCC camp during his Senior Division. When some of the cadets went on strike
                      against the rude behaviour of a JCO instructor he…
                   3.  His contingent was on a long route march during an Army attachment camp. When they were
                      passing by a village, some villagers took them for Naxalites and challenged them with firearms. He
                      as the leader of the contingent…
                   4.  He was appointed as in-charge of marketing unit of his firm. His assistant, who was related to his
                      boss, always criticized him because of professional jealousy. He…
                   5.  As Headmaster of a reputed residential school, he found it difficult to maintain high academic
                      standards because the teachers always whined about extra workload. He…
                   6.  He was leader of a team of volunteers for anti-polio programme. When he went to a village for
                      giving polio drops to children, villagers not only refused the drops but also blamed them for
                      making their children weak due to such programmes. He…
   181   182   183   184   185   186   187   188   189   190   191