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                   designed in such a way in which you are asked to enter into the situational tests and performances are
                   bound to come and the evaluation of your personality starts. Then basic, confirmatory and final
                   conclusion is drawn that whether you are above the certain scale of parameter or not, let me quote the
                   statement of the SSB system :—
                      “The only difference between recommended and not recommended is that the recommended
                   candidates suit our requirements slightly in a better way. And once again remember that we are not
                   passing a judgement on your personality in general context, so there is no reason to feel dejected in case
                   you are not through. It was just one of the various avenues were available to you.
                      And those of you, who feel that you have missed by a narrow margin, can try again. But for that
                   you should do some serious introspection of your past performance and identify your areas of strengths
                   and weaknesses. And yes, you must enjoy doing your mistakes because if you don’t enjoy doing your
                   mistakes, you can’t rectify them.”
                   Answers   leading   to   defence   mechanism,   intellectualism,   impression
                   management etc.
                      President :—Gaurav, you got 75% in high school, 65% in Intermediate and 55% in your
                   graduation. What is the reason for the downfall of your academic graph ?
                      (a) Answer :—Sir, in the Intermediate, I participated in 100 and 200 meter race and represented
                   state. Again I Maintained my marks in graduation. Because of the busy sports schedule I lost my
                   interest in academics, even though if I could have worked hard, I would have got. Sir this was my fault.
                      Interpretation :—Here there is no defence mechanism, the candidate’s personality is transparent
                   as he has shown mark in another field and simultaneously has admitted his ignorance towards studies.
                      (b) How this answer will reveal defence mechanism
                      Answer : During intermediate my mother was suffering with chest pain, no one was in the family
                   to look after her except me and there was regular power cut, teacher did not complete the course sir, this
                   led to the decreasing of graph.
                      Interpretation :—This answer is a defence mechanism or impression management etc which will
                   allow I.O. for grilling. I.O. will grill like this : Gaurav, what was the frequency of your mother’s chest
                   pain, day hours power cut will not stop your studies, similarly in the night you could have studied in the
                   candle’s light. And for the incomplete course you should have gone to teacher’s house, or seniors or
                   libraries.
                      Interpretation :—This grilling will shut your mouth, lower your tone & confidence and deviate
                   your eye contact and depress facial index and finally it will lead to  deterioration in another set of
                   answers.
                      (c) Other question’s & answers of defence mechanism or self defence :—In these set of answers
                   again :—
                      You are inviting the I.O. for Grilling—Example :
                      President :—You should have taken a letter from your principal with due recommendation of your
                   class teacher requesting the nearest college to enrol you in the N.C.C.
                      Interpretation  :—Again you will keep mum having no explanation. Another set of responses
                   leading to impression management may invite a question mark or may mar your recommendation. For
                   the example : If you say, I had busy schedule of my academics for that your P.I.Q. is there which will
                   spell the percentages and the level. If you say, I got diverted myself with sports, extra and cocurricular
                   activities, again your PIQ is lying with him. Gaurav, please take my words. The I.O. is proficient in his
                   profession, has seen the life and has to find out your actual level and potential for that he has to bring all
                   ups and down on the table. Therefore, the testimony of being true, honest and natural bear ? this fact.
                   The only remedy is to confess honestly giving answer like this :—
                      Candidate :—Sir, I am responsible for not joining the N.C.C., for poor academics, again I am to be
                   blamed, as I wasted my time in watching movies, gossiping with friends, moving here and there. The
                   major loss I incurred while being in love with a neighbouring girl. These aforesaid misdeeds did not
                   allow me to make a mark in the field of sports and other activities. Now completely I had wasted three
                   years including the first year of my graduation.
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