Page 36 - Mangwanani Magazine - June2017
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INTERNATIONAL CHILDREN'S DAY 1 JUNE

            Raising
            Kids

                                            in Today's World

                                                                            The world today is very different for children growing
                                                                            up. Children are exposed to many forms of media and
                                                                            messages that children in earlier years were not
                                                                            exposed to.

                                                                            Today’s kids are not equipped to accurately interpret
                                                                            the messages they are receiving. We as parents need to
                                                                            take an active role in being informed of what our kids
                                                                            are watching on TV, what they read, and what music
                                                                            they are listening to.

                                                                            When kids are not given the knowledge or information
                                                                            to help them process the thousands of messages they
                                                                            receive daily, they easily buy into what they hear, see
                                                                            and read. Left on their own, kids will try to understand
                                                                            their world by themselves or with the help of their
                                                                            friends.

                                                                            Some tips for parents to navigate through today’s
                                                                            culture:

                                                                                   Educate yourself on today's Youth Culture

                                                                                   Find out if your community offers any
                                                                                   education/resources for parents and attend
                                                                                   these presentations/ read books if they are
                                                                                   available.

                                                                                   Become aware of what your kids are watching on
                                                                                   TV and the internet. Be sure to point out the
                                                                                   good as well as the bad. Engage in a conversation
                                                                                   with them. If you do not approve of a show, the
                                                                                   content or the language, explain why.

                                                                                   Ask your kids about what they are reading. This
                                                                                   can be books and/or magazines. Read it yourself.
                                                                                   Reading what they read can help you understand
                                                                                   their world and give you the opportunity to help
                                                                                   them process it.

                                                                                   Listen to their music- especially to the words.
                                                                                   One of the advantages of the internet, you can
                                                                                   almost always find the lyrics to songs. Again,
                                                                                   engage in conversation about it. Kids may not
                                                                                   understand the meaning of a song and may just
                                                                                   like the tune.

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