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7. EXPECT EMOTIONS







          Selling the house of a loved                         •  Pricing of the house. Logic and data


          one who has passed is not                               should be used in pricing a house. But
                                                                  when it was “home” to people and
          always an emotional
                                                                  memories, they often want to price it
          experience, but it certainly can                        much higher than it should be. This


          be...especially if it was the                           might be simply because they add the

                                                                  “value” of the memories and home
          home to many family
                                                                  onto the actual value. Or, it could be a
          memories.
                                                                  deliberate or subconscious attempt to

                                                                  delay the sale of the house.

                                                                •  Negotiations and acceptance of offers.

                                                                •  Packing up belongings and “moving

                                                                    out.” This can be before the house is
                                                                    listed, during the time it’s on the

                                                                    market, or up to the closing day.



                                                               There’s no way to make a list of every
          This might sound pretty basic if you’re              possible moment or way that emotions

          naturally an emotional or sensitive                  can come into play. Just expect that they

          person, but it can also be surprising to             might. And if for some reason you find
          many people who aren’t normally                      yourself, or someone else involved,

          emotional and even business-like in                  having trouble agreeing on anything

          matters like this.                                   during the process, realize that it may be


                                                               because they’re sad or upset. In those
          The most common times for emotions
                                                               moments, just be sensitive and
          to affect the process of selling the
                                                               compassionate. It might be all that is
          house of a loved one are:
                                                               really wanted or needed by the person.

         •  Before the house is even listed for                (Of course, it can also be something that

             sale. You may find that you, or                   neither you nor anyone else can help the
             someone in the family, is hesitating,  person with, and if that is the case,

             putting off, or coming up with                    counselling may be a good idea.)

             excuses to not list the house.

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