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THE SILENT LANGUAGE OF EVIL

on people will be more effective.
v They are stubborn and determined in their behavioral aber-
rations and try to make others step back. Their purpose is generally
to put themselves into a state of mind where they can cry. First, in a
very stubborn manner they pretend not to understand what they
had said, then claim that they were wrongly challenged. In this way,
they produce what they need to justify tears.
v They pretend not to understand what's being said. To gain
time to think, they ask people to repeat themselves; they want to be
given explanations. Later, they say that the matter under discussion
was very difficult and complicated, so that they can feel sorry for
themselves.
v They pretend as if they are unable to talk. They make up sen-
tences that do not have any logical sense or meaning and then feel
sorry and cry to this desperate situation they experience. Their sen-
tences are so long and meaningless that others forget how they
began. Others feel uncomfortable because there seems to be no point
to their conversation. They use many connecting words, one after
another, such as "And..." "or," "I mean," "but," "because" and "for ex-
ample"—while their listeners wait for some connection to appear

from these endless sentences.
v Sometimes, their words and phrases are halting. Pretending
to have difficulty expressing themselves, they make their listeners
think that they are so affected by a situation that they cannot speak
clearly. They use this defense method to make others feel sorry for
them.
v In defending their lower selves, they behave like ignorant
people who do not know how to speak or give effective answers. No
matter how cultured and educated they may be, when defending

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