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                                        decision, whether conscious or not, to
                                        adhere to this misguided tradition's
                                        view of the ideal woman makes them mis-
                                        erable, because they are following the
                                        wrong ideals, purpose in life, and
                                        worldview.
                                             Just like all unbelievers, women
                                        chase the temporary life of this world

                                        and its illusory attractions. Their fore-
                                        most ideals are to enjoy this life's plea-
                                        sures as much as possible, raise their liv-
                                        ing standards continuously, have a good
                                        name and status in the community, and
                                        win their society's compliments and ad-
                                        miration.
                                             They are saddened by things that
                                        they cannot control, such as worrying
                                        about what the future may bring and

                                        fearing for their lives and property. As
                                        their society suggests, they seek to be
                                        only good housewives, mothers, or
                                        wives. Or, the other thing expected of
                                        them is that they acquire a good job and
                                        pursue a career that will enable them to
                                        become financially independent.
                                             It goes without saying that there is

                                        nothing wrong with pursuing such
                                        goals, for these are things people can
                                        rightfully desire in life. However, what



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