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bullying or other dangers. They expect their husbands to take care of
them and then, when they are widowed, their sons.
This weak character leads to such behavioral problems as emotional

instability, crying, jealousy, hysteria, being easily upset about things or with
people. Unbelieving societies consider these characteristics to be part of
woman's nature, as well as their being more sensitive to negative events.
Therefore, it is perfectly all right for them to cry in such cases. Men, on
the other hand, are supposed to be brave and strong, because only
women are believed to be easily upset and highly emotional. Another
widespread observation is that some unbelieving women quickly surrender
to hopelessness, worry and complaining, or become argumentative when faced
with adversity. Such reactions are contrary to the Qur'an's morality.
All of these character traits have one thing in common: They only
bring grief and unhappiness to everyone. As a result, such women go
through life being tense, unhappy, and troubled. In other words, their