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                                           Through this verse, Allah advises
                                       Muslims to disobey their parents only if the

                                       latter choose to rebel against Allah and en-
                                       courage their children to do the same. But
                                       still, as required by Islam's morality, one
                                       must not be disrespectful toward them and
                                       must honor their wishes and treat them
                                       well.



                                              Women in Married

                                                        Life

                                           Relationships based on worldly values
                                       can degenerate into baseness, as often hap-
                                       pens in marriage. When people's love and
                                       respect is based on these values, they can
                                       lose these feelings quickly when circum-

                                       stances change. This is almost inevitable
                                       when love, respect, and loyalty depend on
                                       one's beauty, wealth, health, job, or status,
                                       for when these temporary and superficial
                                       characteristics disappear, so will the other
                                       person's love. Someone who follows such
                                       criteria will find no reason to continue to
                                       love and honor his or her spouse when the
                                       basis for those values is lost.

                                           Belief, fear and respect of Allah, and
                                       decency of character are what make love, re-
                                       spect, and loyalty endure. Someone who




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