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                   Therefore, even in the case of divorce, they treat each other well
                       and with justice.
                              Allah commands men to divorce their wives in the

                          best possible way: "When you divorce women and they
                           are near the end of their waiting period, then either re-
                           tain them with correctness and courtesy or release
                           them with correctness and courtesy" (Surat al-Baqara:
                           231). Pursuing only Allah's good pleasure, they treat
                           their ex-wives with compassion, politeness, respect, and
                           thoughtfulness, thereby continuing their former loving
                          and respectful manner toward each other. Allah reveals
                          the male believers' correct behavior in such circum-
                         stances:
                        O you who believe! When you marry believing women and then
                        divorce them before you have touched them, there is no waiting
                        period for you to calculate for them, so give them a gift and let
                        them go with kindness. (Surat al-Ahzab: 49)



                        Guaranteeing Divorced Women's

                                 Financial Security

                        Allah reveals that a sincere Muslim man must guarantee his
                   ex-wife's financial security in order to safeguard her continued fi-
                   nancial well-being:
                        Divorced women should receive maintenance given with cor-
                        rectness and courtesy: a duty for all who guard against evil.
                        (Surat al-Baqara: 241)
                        When determining this amount, a Muslim man must act
                   conscientiously and consider his ex-wife's social standing and
                   needs. Allay says in the Qur'an that:



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