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Do Not Grieve
As stated earlier, Mary withdrew from her society so that she could
be in a psychologically peaceful environment and away from the hurtful
behavior of people who could not comprehend her miraculous situation.
Allah told her not to grieve and bestowed His grace and protection
upon her. No doubt, there was much wisdom in this advice, just as there
was in Mary's withdrawal to a distant place. Muslims must not surren-
der to sadness; rather, they are to trust in Allah and feel the peace of
mind that comes with knowing that Allah will always help them.
This attitude, which is required of all believers, has been confirmed
by modern medicine, for doctors tell women, both during their preg-
nancy and while they are giving birth, to maintain a positive attitude
and avoid any sadness and stress. His advice to delight her eyes means not
to surrender to sadness and to enjoy the news of Allah's gift.
