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Hence, it is extremely rare to have                    derive their vitality from other sources. In

        self-awareness around this dynamic.                    the meantime, it makes sense to protect
        Usually, outside assistance or guidance is             oneself. The easiest protection is to simply
        necessary for this to be seen in oneself.              limit or cease interactions with these

        After all, who would want to see, let alone            people. Now that there is an awareness
        admit, that they are operating in this way,            of this phenomenon, we may be able

        especially when such disparaging epithets              to discern when it is time to move on.
        as “energy vampire” are commonly used.                 Perhaps 15 minutes is okay, but anything
                                                               longer becomes debilitating. If we have

        It is much easier to tell if you are the one           difficulty saying “no” or limiting the
        from whom the energy is being drawn than               amount of interaction, this is a wonderful

        for the one who is doing the siphoning. The            opportunity for self-awareness! Are we
        clearest and most accurate way to determine            attached to an ego-identity of being a
        if you have been around an “energy                     Noble Giver or a Nice Person and cannot

        vampire” is if you are tired or exhausted              bear the possibility of being perceived
        after interacting with that person. This               in a negative way by others (over which

        statement may seem obvious, but consider               we have no control)? If so, look at what
        that we are often fooled by appearances.               we have uncovered! Now this is an
        Even someone who is outwardly giving and               opportunity to heal our own wounds

        gracious may have an energy configuration              that make us feel that we have to sacrifice
        that sucks energy from others. If you use              ourselves in order to be okay.

        the simple guide of noticing when you
        are tired after being around someone, you              Coming back to the subject of
        may begin to notice a definite pattern. Of             protection. Ultimately, the best way to

        course, there could be other reasons for               protect ourselves is to be connected to
        being tired, such as boredom, resistance, or           a real and infinite source of Power and

        anxiety around interacting with someone,               to have our energy body and all of our
        all of which can be quite draining as well. If         chakras completely balanced, aligned and
        we have eliminated the possibility of other            vitalized. This occurs through a process

        causes and yet still feel CONSISTENTLY                 of Healing and Awakening. When we
        and INEXPLICABLY drained after being                   live in the effulgence of Wholeness, no

        around someone, this is a fairly reliable sign         protection is needed as there are no
        that that person is drawing energy from you.           openings or imbalances through which
                                                               someone else’s energy can latch on and

        Have compassion, as they cannot help but               begin to siphon. We also have no need to
        do this until these energetic wounds are               be a martyr nor have fears about how we

        healed which will allow them to naturally              are perceived.
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