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Below is an example of how surprisingly
        effective this subtle practice of Seeing

        can be in healing a particular form of
        judgment that has caused untold suffering

        for so many: SELF-JUDGMENT. It is
        often stated that self-judgment comes
        from early childhood conditioning; that

        because we were judged at an early age
        we continue doing it to ourselves. This

        may be partially true, but why do we
        keep doing it even if it is painful. In other
        instances of experiencing pain, such as

        burning ourselves on a hot stove, we
        quickly learn to stop doing it. However, in

        the case of self-judgment, we seem to be
        hell-bent on persisting. Why is this? There
        is a pay-off. Otherwise, we wouldn’t keep

        doing it. Here is what we get out of it: In            They are not real. They are not you. YOU
        the moment of judgment we feel superior  are the observing presence that clearly

        to the one we are judging. We have split               sees both but does not identify with either.
        ourselves in two – the judger and the                  You are the “middle way” of equanimity,
        judged. Rather than face the feeling of                clarity and truth. Keep seeing this every

        inadequacy, we create a superior alter-ego.  time there is self-judgment and that old
        It may seem inconceivable or even insane  tormentor will quickly vanish in the Light

        at first but think on this deeply. Seeing this  of Awareness which is the Real You.
        could be very healing and liberating. We
        begin to appreciate how strong the need is  3. It is easy to be lost in the calamities of

        to be right and morally superior. We begin  life, what are some important things to
        to realize how the insecure ego will resort  remember or implement?

        to anything to feel more powerful even if
        it is judging itself.                                  First, realize that worry, fear and
                                                               judgment do absolutely no good for you,

        Here is the way out of this tangled web.               the world and others. In fact, it further
        Realize that you are NEITHER the                       pollutes the collective consciousness and

        inferior one being judged nor the superior  energy field with more negativity. Even
        one doing the judging. They are both                   the use of words such as “calamities” has
        ego-created apparitions. Do not judge the  a flavor of negativity and drama. This is

        judger; do not feel sorry for the judged.              the result of being deeply programmed
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