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THE EGO Ivy Informer

With the holidays approaching, many of us travel to be among our families. As we do, it may be
worthwhile to ponder the foundation of family. A family is much like a building. A building of strength
has a foundation strong enough to bear the challenges of life -- defeat, disappointment, failure -- yet a
roof protective enough to contain us when success or individual gain fuels a sense of pride. The walls
need be transparent enough that our inward experiences are attuned to outward circumstances but solid
enough to offer a sanctuary from the exterior world.

Our buildings differ greatly in size, shape and materials, but their strength is determined by
unconditional or authentic love. Even if tragedy were to strike -- as an earthquake, flood or fire might
damage a building -- a family rooted in love transcends it. Family love lives well beyond the
boundaries of space and time. It's an ongoing process of making lists, sharing ideas, and selecting just
the right things. It is not about the money spent, the item chosen or the gift shared, but rather in the
conscious act of giving gifts of love.

Love is the essence of a strong family. Without it the structure can withstand little. A family, whatever
its configuration, arises from authentic or unconditional Love and the building created is home. As
Love illuminates your home and life, this Holiday Season, remember the reason for the Season. As
we celebrate the Christmas Season, I am indeed grateful for the birth of Jesus Christ, realizing that he
was born in a humble way, to the Virgin Mary in Bethlehem. Because of HIM, we now have the
opportunity for eternal life in heaven. I wish each of you a very Merry Christmas as you enjoy time
with your family, friends and sistahs!

ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY, INC.

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